As It Is - The Stigma [Boys Dont Cry] (Official Music Video)

20 Jun 2018
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Taken from the new album 'The Great Depression.'
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I see a pain behind your eyes,
I know you feel it everyday.
It’s like a light that slowly dies,
but it’s better not to say such things out loud.
Just close your eyes and bite your tongue for now.
Don’t let them see you fall.
Stay strong,
hold on,
you’ve got to keep it together now.
Just dry your eyes,
‘cause boys don’t cry.
You feel an emptiness inside,
how it sinks into your soul.
But it’s nothing you can’t hide;
just forget about the hole beneath your skin that’s swallowing the best of you within.
Don’t let them see you fall.

  • If you're having a bad day, just remember that in Airbud some dude got replaced by a golden retriever.

    Dacian MironDacian MironVor 7 Tage
  • Fuck when is the tour ?

    Jayden HowardJayden HowardVor 10 Tage
  • I've not seen anyone mention that at the end when the woman yells "Silence" at the girls, its also bringing to light how women are often told to be silent and let men do all the talking.

    ChuckRadaman GamingChuckRadaman GamingVor 11 Tage
  • Me da miedito pero me gustó ah

    Andrea piolaAndrea piolaVor 14 Tage
  • is this patty walters

    Jamed Keeling the gamer and hacker lolJamed Keeling the gamer and hacker lolVor 18 Tage
  • Band is trying to raise awareness for a serious issue about how most guys don't open up about their issues due to the whole idea they need to be strong and don't let shit get to them and 90% of the comments be about eyeliner and emo's. congrats

    HalloweenHalloweenVor 20 Tage
    • Halloween song is about the frontman abusive childhood

      NickNickVor Tag
  • Emo never Diee!

    Peter Cesar YbiernasPeter Cesar YbiernasVor Monat
  • Week

    Too EpicToo EpicVor Monat

  • 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

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    Leila HamkaLeila HamkaVor Monat
  • Boooooooo

    Kim HansenKim HansenVor Monat

    sweetenersweetenerVor Monat
  • This video is a tribute to everyone who doesn't fit societies standard

    Léo FilmsLéo FilmsVor Monat
  • I love how bands like this are a thing. I’m 12 and I love this music. I wish it was more popular, but I’m glad there bands like As It Is ,Badflower , Palaye Royale, and Set It Off keeping this stuff alive. 🖤🖤🖤🖤

    Deathly Hallows Hufflepuff4Deathly Hallows Hufflepuff4Vor Monat
    • Deathly Hallows Hufflepuff4 “Emo” has just evolved into metal core my dude

      NickNickVor Tag
  • peter parker?

    Marcelo MonsalvesMarcelo MonsalvesVor Monat
  • Stop saying crap. Boys cry And it's freaking adorable!

    Kerene SmithKerene SmithVor Monat
  • See what participation trophies are doing to the youth... I mean mid 20 year old millenials.???

    SydneyChromaticSydneyChromaticVor Monat
  • Make us alive again.

    ASMAN -ASMAN -Vor Monat
  • the cure did it better u fags

    Survival Of The DeitiesSurvival Of The DeitiesVor Monat
  • this song has helped me out so much.

    Mary BernalMary BernalVor Monat
  • I would like to believe The Cure would be proud. This is so beyond beautiful.

    Saryn JSaryn JVor Monat
  • Wtff I swear I thought this song came out like 2010

    Natalie CaroNatalie CaroVor Monat
  • You may b stranded but bottle those tears up boy the oceans already salty enough.. Honestly one of my fav songs

    Sebastian KoonSebastian KoonVor 2 Monate
  • Holy fuck, I just came here after hearing Patty's teenage dirtbag covef :O

    mary tynamomary tynamoVor 2 Monate
  • Ah yes a great place to learn how to do a tie.

    KiwiKiwiVor 2 Monate
    • It's actually super easy

      King TuckKing TuckVor 2 Monate
  • I don’t think I’ve seen a more beautiful human being than Patty Walters

    Anna ShiboblayAnna ShiboblayVor 2 Monate
  • The fuck is this shit, i thought it was a The Cure cover

    Zen KuroiZen KuroiVor 2 Monate
  • So, I listened to this while driving, with a friend sitting in the passenger seat, and I sang along and my friend looked at me, totally weirded out, 'cause they didn't get that the song's intention is actually the opposite of "boys don't cry". ^^"

    Alu FolieAlu FolieVor 2 Monate
  • Isnt it a bit sarcastic that they shout "Boys dont cry" through the door after the other boy went out for Crying...? xD

    Just Creepy InSideJust Creepy InSideVor 2 Monate
    • @Just Creepy InSide Not sarcasm,it`s addressing abusive toxic masculine relations through the perspective of both the abuser and the one being abused.

      Anarcha MediaAnarcha MediaVor 16 Tage
  • My emo trans feminine gay boy ass it's such in love with this rn

    Rei Do DramaRei Do DramaVor 2 Monate
  • fuck me this band is doing incredible things

    blonde joviblonde joviVor 2 Monate
  • this video was a real punch in the gut : ( but it was good except for my crying

    I'm GayI'm GayVor 2 Monate
  • This got me through 8th grade, anyone else

    ivy lawsivy lawsVor 2 Monate

    Jinx RogueJinx RogueVor 2 Monate
  • i love how the ending is kind of a nod to the problems women face. it’s solidarity: we both have systematic problems and just because one group is struggling doesn’t mean the others aren’t as well. that’s why i hate people who say “i’m not a feminist because men have problems too”. the point isn’t that men aren’t struggling. we all face different kinds of issues, but they’re all valid

    Ella McCrearyElla McCrearyVor 2 Monate
  • I didnt even realize this was patty walters

    VaxityVaxityVor 2 Monate
  • Me: Emo is dead *Listen As It Is* Me:Oh Shit,Here we go again

    Otairzinho Mil GrauOtairzinho Mil GrauVor 2 Monate
  • 1:47 my fave part

    Cassie ChavezCassie ChavezVor 3 Monate
  • It's a world of pain and suffering I emo 2019

    Король ЦарьКороль ЦарьVor 3 Monate
  • Friend: your emo Me in all black: i am not Friend: you listen to Get Scared, At It Is, Three Days Grace and Set It Off so your emo Me in my head: wait am i emo? i guess so

    Vanlaura cpVanlaura cpVor 3 Monate
    • I guess I'm emo too then lmao I listen to all of those🤷

      Mikayla JacksonMikayla JacksonVor 6 Tage
  • 🤘🤘🤘🤘😈😈

    Chetkiy VidChetkiy VidVor 3 Monate
    • Eeeeeee

      Chetkiy VidChetkiy VidVor 3 Monate
  • Hey y’all! I recently uploaded a cover of this song! It’d mean a lot if y’all check it out!! 🤘🏽😈😈😈

    Erik GranadosErik GranadosVor 3 Monate
    • @Erik Granados np

      andybiersackforeverandybiersackforeverVor 3 Monate
    • andybiersackforever awesome thanks so much that means a lot! 😘

      Erik GranadosErik GranadosVor 3 Monate
    • No

      andybiersackforeverandybiersackforeverVor 3 Monate
  • sucks when your transgender and people put high male standards on you and all like damn everyone cries

    honey senpaihoney senpaiVor 3 Monate
  • 1:49

    FabyFabyVor 3 Monate
  • my favorite emo song :)

    Jamed Keeling the gamer and hacker lolJamed Keeling the gamer and hacker lolVor 3 Monate
  • i love this song, tho im a girl

    KimipotpotKimipotpotVor 3 Monate
  • О боже, это же армия, как страшно😂, да ну на#хуй

    Я ХроносЯ ХроносVor 3 Monate
  • I'm sorry but this is really stupid lamo

    Nick VonNick VonVor 3 Monate
    • I think It's better if you keep your opinion to yourself. If you don't have constructive criticism then kindly leave. :)

      My Chemical EmotionsMy Chemical EmotionsVor 3 Monate
  • Why am i here? I'm not looking for a new fandom...

    no youno youVor 3 Monate
  • I know this is to end the stigma of men being seen in society as feminine for being emotional but, even tho I’m female, I can relate because growing up in an old fashioned Mexican family meant I got smacked in the back of the head if my eyes got even a little watery

    Munch SisMunch SisVor 3 Monate
  • Me 2019: pretends to like what ever music people put one As it Is 2019: is a thing Me right now : BUYS ALL THE EYELINER


  • Emo Live😍😍😍I'm EMO FOREVER

  • Oi sou nathalia do brasil eu não conhecia sua banda mais quando ouvi a musica adorei suas musicas sao umasimo e adorei

    Nathalia De araujo palopoliNathalia De araujo palopoliVor 3 Monate
  • Someone: EMO IS DEAD💀 Me:(wearing black clothes and black eyeliner, earphones blasting rock music full volume) IT NEVER WAS DEAD 🙅🖕🖕🤘

    Adrianna RodriguezAdrianna RodriguezVor 3 Monate
  • Oof for a second I thought this was boys who cry and they finally made it a real band But at least I found a nice song for emo time

    julahulasjulahulasVor 3 Monate
  • 2019?

    The Juntti PaskaThe Juntti PaskaVor 3 Monate
  • I don't know how I got here....BUT I LOVE IT!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Dream On FireDream On FireVor 3 Monate
  • My elementary school was like that for both boys and girls

    Catalina MyrrhpawCatalina MyrrhpawVor 3 Monate
    • @Diana Mendez an EA when I was in grade 2 did shiz like that but I ment the you can't cry thing

      Catalina MyrrhpawCatalina MyrrhpawVor 3 Monate
    • They got hit by the teachers? 🙄

      Diana MendezDiana MendezVor 3 Monate